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Denise affronta il tema della non genitorialità e racconta delle domande solitamente ricevute in merito alla sua scelta. Denise vive in Turchia da venticinque anni e rivendica la decisione di non avere figli.
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Trascrizione in italiano
DENISE: «Ciao, mi chiamo Denise sono italo-turca, e vivo a Istanbul. Sono una lunàdiga perché non ho mai voluto figli. In Turchia questa è una scelta davvero molto dura, perché ti chiedono sempre: "Vuoi dei figli?" "Quanti?" "E perché non li vuoi?" Non ne ho avuti e non ne ho mai voluti. In realtà, non ci ho neanche pensato.
Ho pensato a me, sono egoista, ho pensato alla mia vita. Non mi sono sentita libra di prendere la mia decisione. Mi dicono che riverso il mio affetto sugli animali perché non ho figli. Ma non è per niente così! Onestamente, per me avere figli non è mai stata una necessità. Non sono necessari per sentirsi umani.»
Trascrizione in turco
DENISE: «Merhaba ismim Denise yarı italyan yarı türküm, Istanbul'da yaşıyorum. Ben bir lunàdiga. Çocuk sahibi olmamaya karar verdim. Türkiye'de zor bir seçim gerçekten zor bir seçim. Çünkü hep sana soruyorlar: "Çocuk istiyor musunuz?" "Kaç tane?" "Neden onları istemiyorsun?" Onlara sahip değilim çünkü istemiyorum, Bunu hiç düşünmedim bile.
Kendi hayatım hakkında düşünmeye karar verdim, verdim bir sürü kedi var bir sürü köpek var. İnsanlar çok fazla kedi ve köpeğim olduğunu söylüyor Çünkü benim çocuğum yok. Öyle bir şey değil. Çocuk sahibi olmak bir zorunluluk değildir. Tam bir insan gibi hissetmek için gerekli değiller.»
Traduzione in inglese
Denise talks about parenthood and tells us of the questions she usually get asked around her choice. Denise has been living in Turkey for 25 years and she claims her right to choose not to have children.
DENISE: «Hello, my name is Denise, I am Italo-Turkish, and I live in Istanbul. I am a lunàdiga because I never wanted children. In Turkey, this is a very hard choice, because one of the first questions asked is always: "Don't you want children?" "How many?" "Why not?" I never wanted children, honestly I never really thought about it.
I thought about myself, selfishly, about my life. I never felt free to take my own decision. People say I take in cats and dogs because I don't have children. But that's not the case at all! I never felt having children as a necessity. Never! They are not necessary to feel human.»